Monday, May 7, 2012

journal entry #9


Marriage in America

The Conservative Case for Gay Marriage

This article is about people being able to marry someone of the same sex. Some people couldn’t believe that this guy was involved in challenging a traditional marriage. He wanted to create a new constitutional right. That people of the same sex should be able to get married if they want to. Everyone has different viewpoints on gay marriages. Our constitution is supposed to protect our fundamental rights. It was said in the Declaration of Independence "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness." In 1857 the Supreme Court said that African Americans couldn’t be citizens. Abraham Lincoln reminded everyone that "our fathers brought forth on this continent, a new nation, conceived in liberty and dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal." It has taken our Nation a while to treat everyone equally. Marriage is one of the most fundamental rights we have as an American under the constitution. The Supreme Court has said that marriage is a part of the Constitution's protections of liberty, privacy, freedom of association, and spiritual identification. In short, the right to marry helps us to define ourselves and our place in a community. Without it, there can be no true equality under the law.

Saturday, May 5, 2012

journal entry # 8


Marry Him!

There were two friends that were a park with their children. They both conceived their babies by donor sperm. They felt they had to do that because they hadn’t met Mr. Right.  They thought it was their dream to be picnicking with their kids at the park. It was their dream to be mothers with a family. The dream was to fall in love, get married, have kids, and live happily ever after. She believes if you ask any soul barring, 40 year old single women what she longs for most that she will say a husband. They are woman who just want traditional families. No matter how successful a woman is when she finds herself 30 and unmarried, she can feel panicked.  There may be some women that don’t feel worried at all, but they are probable lying to themselves. She thinks that a woman should just settle because there is no Mr. Right.  She didn’t always think that a woman should just settle. It took her not just settling to realize that settling is the way to go.

journal enrty #7

Are fathers necessary?
No matter what kind of man you are, every man can take pride in being a father. Fathers are very important in a child’s life role models or teachers for the kids. Obama reeled off that kids that grow up without dads are 5 times as likely to live in poverty and commit crime, 9 times as likely to fail out of school, and 20 times as likely to end up in prison.

Thursday, April 19, 2012

argument essay topic


The topic that I am going to write about for my argument essay is Do fathers matter?

Monday, April 2, 2012

Ethnography assignment



            Working at Lees Market is like being part subculture. Whether you go to school with them or not everyone knows everyone. We are like a big family we depend on each other to keep everything in the store running correctly. Lees is a big store for Westport, but compared to other stores it is small. There are many different departments throughout the store. Each department has things they have to do every day.

            Lees market is a small grocery store in Westport, MA. It has a kitchen that makes pre made food. People just go there get a meal that is big enough for two. Depending on what you get depends in the price. Some meat is more expensive than others. The pulled pork is always more expensive then the chicken legs. They also have whole chicken that you can buy, but those don’t come as meals.  It also has a few different vegetables to choose from. They usually have regular mac and cheese, but sometimes they have buffalo mac and cheese. Also they have regular mashed potatoes or garlic mashed potatoes.

            At Lees they have a deli where you can get fresh cut meat. We have different kinds of meats that we carry. For each kind of meat we have a lees brand. They also carry fresh hot dogs, and different types of cheeses. Lees has different types of sides that people can get that are cold. On the side of the deli is the dairy section. It has different brands of eggs in one of the coolers. A little bit farther down in another part of the coolers there are different types of cheeses. There is also cottage cheese, and sour cream. After that there are different types of puddings and yogurts in the rest of the coolers.

            As you walk down the left wall there are many more coolers. In the first set of cooler doors there is milk, half and half, orange juice, and other drinks. After those sets of coolers there are coolers with different types and kinds of ice cream. There are also different brands of popsicles. As you continue along that wall you get to the produce section of the store. It is a pretty big produce section with a lot to choose from.  As you continue from the produce section you get to the meat department which has a lot of different meats. It also has many different cut of steak that people can choose from. Then there are fifteen aisles with many other goods. At Lees you can find so much we have everything from salad dressings to cleaning supplies and animal food. It might sound like a big store but it isn’t.               

            When you work at Lees you are part of a family. Even if you don’t know many people when you first start working there you will in time. Everyone is really nice to one another.  No matter how old you are everyone shows respect and everyone gets respect. There are friendships that are made all the time. Sometimes when working with people you didn’t know from school is harder to make friends. The longer you work with people the more you get to know each other. Sometimes the people you work with can become some of your best friends. There are all kinds of relationships that are formed.

            There are different departments in the store. Each department has things they have to do each day. Up front where the registers are is where I work, I am a cashier. We have many responsibilities in the front end. Being a cashier you are one of the last people a person sees before they leave the store. You make one of the biggest impressions on the person before they leave the store. What you say or do to the person represents Lees Market. When working with people you have to always have a smile on. When people come through your line you have to ask how they are doing. You also have to ask if they would paper or plastic. When bagging their groceries you shouldn’t just hand them the bag of food. You should walk it over to them and put it into their carriage for them. When you call the store the service desk answers which is at the front end . Also at night the front is responsible for cleaning the front end. There are certain things we have to do at night before we can leave.

            There are a few departments that kind of do the same things. Grocery and customer service have a few of the same jobs to do. They both stock shelves around the store. When the front end needs help they will call someone from one of those departments. If we have a big order come through our line we are sup post to call someone to bag for us, which we call someone from those departments to help. The people that work in grocery also work in customer service because the jobs are very similar. Also there is usually only one person who is customer service at a time. Dairy is also very close to these two jobs. They only have to stock the coolers and if we need the extra help up front we also call someone from there. I think the biggest thing that would bother me about dairy is always being cold. You are working in the coldest parts of the store.  

            Another department is produce. Produce is nice because you are in a back room of the store just working with produce all day. You have to make sure all the fruit and vegetables look good and healthy. Every once in a while when you are done with one kind of fruit you have to take it out to the produce section of the store. If we don’t have any more of some kind of fruit or vegetable it isn’t a big deal, but if we don’t have it out because the produce people aren’t doing anything then it is a big deal.

            The kitchen and deli are very similar too. The country kitchen has to make the food in the morning, but after that all they have to do is give people what they want.  They will have many different foods to choose from and people can get what they want and however much they want. You can order a big platter of something if you are having a party or something. You have to order it at least a day ahead of time. Then the deli just has to cut what people what. They have to ask what brand they want of whatever kind of meat they are getting because we have a few different brands of each. They also have to ask how thick they want the slices to be. Also the cafe is similar because they make sandwiches the way people like. Making people’s sandwiches can be very difficult because people can be very picky about how they are made. The bakery is easy but hard at the same time. It is easy because you just have to just bag what they want and put a number on it. The number goes into the computer and the name of what they got comes up with a price. One of the annoying things is you clean most of the time. The person who runs the bakery is the one that bakes all the goodies.            

            It might seem like no matter you work in the store it would be boring. It really isn’t because you get to interact with many different types of people. Many of the same people go there every day, but you get to know them. Since Westport is a small town you see many of the same people day after day. It isn’t a bad thing because you have more of a relationship with them then you would if it is just a random person.  Even if we took one department out the store couldn’t run smoothly. We need everyone and every department in order to keep running smoothly.

           

           

Sunday, March 25, 2012

journal enrty # 6


Does couples therapy work?

The truth is that couples therapy stresses out the therapist too. They decided that it is time for practitioners to address their feelings and vent. Couples therapy is very challenging it isn’t easy to deal with. You don’t want a therapist to be sensitive, calm, empathic, and accepting. You want someone that is going to get in there and mix it up with the client. It is hard to deal with two strong individuals that are colliding together. At first husbands and wives wouldn’t go to therapy together. Then in the late 60’s and 70’s divorce rates were raising and they started seeing them in pairs. When the therapist saw the couple together this became known as conjoint therapy. The goal of marriage therapy wasn’t to maintain the relationship but to help them take charge of themselves. Who and what is to be taken charge of is still unknown. Some types of couples therapy is known to work better than others. They are not study how people change. None of this is going to resolve the real underlying problem.  

journal entry #5


Get used to living with Mom and Dad

There is a growing trend of more adults living with their parents. They are described as lazy overgrown babies. A few reasons why more and more adults are living at home is because, it is hard for new workers to get into the working field and also the cost of housing that is climbing. It isn’t because the generation is lazy it is because of a series of unfortunate overlapping trends. This causes a disadvantage for them not being able to become independent like their parents were able to do. Since it is hard for young people to get jobs it just keeps getting harder because more job are requiring more schooling. The schooling that you need for a decent job is getting longer and more expensive. Many young people live at home because they need experience for career they want to go into, but they have to interne somewhere to get the experience. When you are interning you don’t get paid which means you can’t move out if you’re not making money to pay your bills. Lower class people have always had to have everyone working to keep the house hold afloat. People are able to own house because of the GI bill that was passes.

Journal entry # 4


The Ivy Delusion

            This article is about how mothers did rising their children. Also it is about teenagers going to college. Mothers give up a lot when they have kids. Mothers have to nurture and guide their children. Everyone has at least one natural talent or passion. The article also talks about how good mothers go to Brown and how the kids shouldn’t role out going to Yale. Mothers want their kids to follow their passions all the way New Haven, Connecticut. They feel that if you change the kids experience and reduce the stress and make kids happier. When looking at application kids put into college they look for good grades and did interesting things on their own time.  

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Journal entry three


It takes a Neighborhood

This article is about New Orleans, and hurricane Katrina. Because of the hurricane they have had to demolish damaged houses and abandon neighborhoods. The article also says that they wanted to shrink the city by using Planned Shrinkage.  Residents have returned and new residents have joined New Orleans. Neighborhoods would take things into their own hands and the government finally helped with additional resources. The article also talks about shotgun houses. The house is like a hall way that goes from the front door to the back door. The house so straight enough that if you fired a shot gun it would go right through, that is how it got its name.  What the inside looked like would vary from house to house. Many locals took matters into their own hands and with the help from thousands of volunteers they made houses that were damaged livable again. They also fixed up many other things like playgrounds, parks, schools, and churches. Little of this made it to the national media even though it has been five years since Hurricane Katrina and Rita.

Journal entry two


This New House

This article starts out with talking about how we are using up all the fossil fuels and bring it closer to irreversible climate change. My future kid’s homes will be as comfortable and expensive as my parent’s or the house I hope to have one day.  We just have to use smart planning and technological advances to adapt house today for the future. We have to rethink basic design and functions also. They had teams come up with different ideas on what a future house using solar power could look like. 

Journal entry one


If these walls could talk

This article is about how many sitcoms living rooms have the same basic look to them. It also talks about how many people can just look at the home design and learn about the characters. This article also talks about how sitcom families are different and that some are more traditional. They will buy some things at the mall so things in the house will look more familiar to people. It talks about this show Modern Family and how they set up the house is resemble the family.

Thursday, February 23, 2012

My Memoir


            One experience that has played a huge role in my life is my mom getting diagnosed with breast cancer. I was always close to my mom we use to watch movies all the time when I was younger. When she got told that she had breast cancer the whole family was scared for her. My mom is the nicest person in the world how could this happen to her. Watching my mom go through that was one the scariest things I had to do. Even though it was scary it did bring my family closer together. After what seemed like forever my mom final got some good news.

            When I was a little kid my mom and I were very close. As I was growing up we weren’t as close as we use to be. About three years ago my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer. It was a very scary and emotionally thing to deal with. I was upset that I wasn’t as close to her as I use to be. Her getting diagnosed made me grow up so much and appreciate everything she does a lot more.  I was scared to think I could lose my mom I love her. We took every day one step at a time. Each day had their own battles to go through but we mad it though them all together.

This tragedy also brought my family closer together. Since my mom couldn’t clean and do the chores around the house my sister, my dad and me started do all the chores that had to be done. We didn’t want my mom to worry about it. We want to make her happy because she was going through a lot. She loved having a clean house but since she was going through chemo she couldn’t do everything she wanted to. She would help us as much as could but we never expected her to. We always wanted her to just take it easy we would handle it. She didn’t like to feel useless that is why I think she would want to do even just the littlest bit around the house if she could. Also through everything she didn’t miss a lot of work. I don’t know how she did it but we were proud of her.

After a few months of chemo she got some of the best news, that she didn’t have cancer anymore. They told her to continue keeping an eye on things because she does have a good chance it could come back. At first I was so happy and thought it was too good to be true, but it was. I was also scared for a while that it was going to come back, but it hasn’t and I hope it never does. My mom does deserve to go through that again. It might have been hard in the family, but it was defiantly hardest on her. My family and I thank God every day for not taking my mom from us. I don’t know where my family would be without her she keeps everything together and running smooth. My mom is like the glue that holds the family together. She always does as much as she can for my family no matter what.

This experience defiantly changed my life. It made me appreciate everything in life a lot more then I use to. It also showed me that family can get through anything if they stick together. Even though we weren’t as close as I was getting older I still loved her and she was always there when I need her. My mom having cancer was the biggest thing my family ever had to deal with, but we all made it through. When mom told me that the doctor said everything looked good I thought it was too good to be true.

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

Rhetorical Ad

This advertisement shows that everyone in the family can enjoy Campbell’s Soup. It isn’t just for adults or just for children. There is a mom, a dad, and their child looking at the Campbell’s soup that is cooking on the stove. They say that it looks good, listens good, and smells good, and it’s good. This means that everything about this soup is good. There isn’t anything wrong with the soup, it is perfect. Under the looks good it says “see how brightly tempting!”  Under the listens good it says “hear it bubble softly!” Also under the smells good it says it says “catch a fragrant whiff!”  Some women say that Campbell’s Soup is a meal all and itself. I don’t think it is, I think you can make some really good meal that everyone in the family will like. There is many meals you can make with this soup that will make everyone happy. I think the tone is happy and excited. They are all happy because they all love this soup and it brings them together as a family. They are also excited because they are going to have something they all like and they are spending time together.
I think the message is to buy this produce because everyone in the family will like it and it brings the family closer together. The audience this advertisement targets is everyone. Everyone will love this soup no matter your age or gender. Everyone values time with their families, because these days families don’t spend enough time together. Mothers and fathers both work, and many work five or more days a week. Any time families can get all together to eat for a meal is special. This ad emphasizes this because everyone in the family says something good about the soup. Also they are all smiling and look so happy. I think this advertisement is effective to its audience because it shows how happy the family is about the soup. This is how this advertisement fits in with family.

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Themes I choose

My first choose for a theme I would like to use is family and relationships. I feel that it would be something I can relate the most to and write more on. The first essay we have to write is a personal essay. I can definitely relate to my family or my relationships with many things. I have had a lot of good memories with both my family and my relationships with friends that I could talk about.  Also I can use my family or my relationship to do an observational essay. I would more comfortable observing my family or someone’s family that I am close to. I could come up with some kind of argument comparing family vs relationship. I can use a romantic relationship or just a best friend relationship. Or I could even compare those two relationships to each other.
If I am unable to get my first choose for a theme I also wouldn’t mine writing about the environment and nature. I can relate to it because they both affect our everyday life. Also it would be convenient to observe because I live in Westport and there is a lot of nature around. I can also come up with an argument about how important it is to keep our environment clean.
If I can’t get my first two chooses then I also wouldn’t mine writing about food. I don’t eat as health as I should, but I do want to start. My personal essay could be about how I don’t eat as health as I should and how I can work on that. My argument essay would definitely be about how important it is to eat health. My observation essay could be my observing someone that eats health and someone that doesn’t eat as health and compare them.

Monday, January 30, 2012

1st post :)

I feel that my senior project paper was one of the best papers that I have written. I am not the best writer I make many mistakes with spelling, and leaving run on sentences. Even when I read over my work sometimes I will read it how it should sound instead of what my paper says. I don’t write stories or anything I mainly just write papers for school. When I write my papers I usually write in my room with no one around so I can concentrate. I like typing a lot more then writing on paper because it is sometimes hard to read my writing. Also I like it to make sure I am using the right words the right way. I also like using the computer because when I stuck on how to spell a word it can help me figure out how to spell it.  If I have to wright on paper I like using a pen even though when I mess up I have to cross it out. One of my favorite writers is Nicolas Sparkes, author of The Notebook. When I write essays I brainstorm ideas then start my writing. This semester I just want to mainly work on my writing skills to make my writing better.